Three Possible Benefits of Getting a Divorce

No one gets married with the intention of getting a divorce. Most people get married because at the time, they want to be together for the rest of their lives. However, despite the fact that divorce has many negative connotations, there are some potential benefits of ending your marriage. Below, our Orlando divorce lawyer explains what these are and how to get the legal help you need during this difficult time.

Protecting the Children 

When a married couple has children together, they often do not want to get a divorce because they believe it will be too difficult for the kids. It is true that, at least initially, ending your marriage could be very hard on your children. However, those are short-term consequences. If you stay in an unhappy and perhaps even unhealthy marriage, the long-term consequences may be even worse for your children.

Getting a divorce can show your children that it is okay to prioritize your own mental well-being and to do what will make you happy. Doing so can model this behavior for your children and show them that self-care is important. Additionally, not getting a divorce when you are unhappy in your marriage can also be harmful to your children. Instead of growing up in two households where one parent is happy, they will grow up in one with two parents where there is a great deal of conflict. Children can sense this, and it can be very damaging.

Reduce Stress 

Even if you and your spouse do not have children, it is important to consider your own emotional and mental well-being. There are many reasons people are reluctant to get a divorce. For example, some people may be concerned about their financial situation after divorce and feel as though they cannot handle it on their own. Others may worry about the religious or social stigma they may face. These may be good reasons to try and make your marriage work. However, if your efforts are not successful, it is typically better to get a divorce and free yourself from the painful experience of staying in an unhappy marriage.

Preserve a Friendship

 It is true that after getting a divorce, the two spouses involved do not want to have anything to do with each other. Fortunately, though, that is not always the case. Divorce is not always triggered by wrongdoing, such as infidelity. Instead, sometimes two spouses simply realize that they have grown apart, or that they have fallen out of love with each other. In these cases, it may be better to get a divorce and try to preserve the friendship before things become bitter. This is particularly true when two spouses have children together.

Our Divorce Lawyer in Orlando Can Help with Your Case 

Regardless of your reason for getting a divorce, it is always recommended that you work with an Orlando divorce lawyer. At Anderson & Ferrin, P.A., our experienced attorney can guide you through the process and help you obtain the fair settlement you are entitled to. Call us today at 407-412-7041 or contact us online to schedule a consultation and to get the legal advice you need.

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